Would these posts be better if I didn’t try to write them on Sunday nights, when I’m usually exhausted from the weekend? Probably, but I’m not sure there is a better time to write them. So it goes.

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Speaking of, I’m tired tonight. Long week with Charlie home sick half of it and a busy, call-heavy week at work. Also, Charlie must be going through another developmental growth spurt because he has been much more temperamental than usual this week. Challenging on the parenting front.

Still, there were good times, laughs, and sweet moments.

Scenes from a Saturday morning woods walk:

Charlie correctly pointed out that a woodpecker made the hole in the tree! I picked him up to examine it, since I was fascinated by the frozen sap.

He decided we should climb a steep hill together, so we did. He did it mostly by himself, and later that day he mentioned he was proud of himself for climbing that hill ♥️

Wow, Daddy! We can see the WHOLE woods from here!

We could, and we could even see the river from there.

I’m so glad we live close to the woods. Charlie is now interested in tromping off-trail, which I like to do, too. He is observant and curious, and I love teaching him about what he finds and sees.

Later that day I took him to swim class and we had fun again. I love doing that with him!

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We painted Valentine’s hearts one night this week, at Charlie’s request. He calls them Holiday Hearts. It is fun to make our own decorations!

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There is so much in our own communities that we ignore/miss/tune out/don’t notice. One of my goals this year is to explore and experience where I live in new ways.

Today we stopped by a bakery we’ve driven by for a year but hadn’t been to. Then when we went to a park we’ve been to dozens of times, I checked out the tiny nature center I’ve never noticed before. It had some cool Native American artifacts!

This is an extension of trying to lean into the seasonality of this region. Noticing how the brook in the woods changes from season to season. Keeping an eye on the wineberries so I can pick them at peak ripeness. Noticing when certain wildflowers emerge. Which birds are around when.

Taking it a step further, I’d like to see the same place from a new perspective. I’d like to walk or ride my bike some places we normally drive and experience it at a slower pace. Fish a spot we’ve only driven by. Try catching some striped bass where I normally row my boat. Have coffee in a new park. Go to different playgrounds with Charlie.

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I bet that most consumer mods on cars perform worse than the stock models. This probably wasn’t true in the 70s and 80s, but is today. All these lowered Subarus and Hondas that sound like leaf blowers are louder and burn more gas then their stock counterparts off the lot, and mostly get driven in stop-and-go traffic.

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The anti-woke backlash hash over corrected. A good chunk of what gets labeled as woke is just people being polite, welcoming, and non-antagonistic.

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I’ve been using Openvibe for the past couple days to cross post to and consume Mastodon, Bluesky, Threads, and Nostr. It has an easy onboarding flow to get all of the platforms signed in, and it works better than I expected. (I expected it to be hacky and janky, it isn’t!)

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I’ve been taking magnesium to help me sleep for about a month now, and it helps! Glycinate seems to work better than citrate for me. I didn’t take it for a week, and I noticed a difference. I’ve also experimented with 200mg vs 400mg, and notice a difference there, too. Most nights I stick with 200mg. If I don’t take it by 10pm, I skip it so I’m not groggy in the morning.

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I spent an afternoon helping the Yorktown Library with their WordPress site.

My current fly tying project is exploring different patterns using pheasant tail, since Chas Deremer gave me some over the holidays. I’ll do a full recap post once I’ve tied more, but this week I tied pheasant tail nymphs, dry pheasant tail midges, and Teeny nymphs. Many more to go on my list!

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In the workshop on Saturday afternoon I turned a small oak dish and got started making a pedestal for my fly tying vise, which currently attaches with a clamp.

From firewood to oak dish

I finally got this dust hood mounted on the lathe while having it be easily removable. It occurred to me yesterday that instead of making something that will sit on the bench tubes and hold the hood, I could just screw a dowel on it and stick the dowel through a hole in the carriage that I don’t use while running the lathe. Works great, and if I need to push it back I just unscrew the dowel and screw it into a different spot. Takes 30s.

I can also clamp a light to it.

Hoping to get out there again this week and make more!

Happy new year!

This posts spans the Christmas holiday through now, because I didn’t post an update while traveling. Unfortunately those two periods of time, though only a week apart, feel more like a month apart. Here’s the abridged version:

• Charlie traveled really well both there and back. We switched his car seat to face forward, which was a whole new world for him. He loves it. Amanda was able to sit in the front seat for the entire trip, both directions!
• We had lots of good family time. Watching Charlie’s relationship bloom with his grandparents is special. He played really well with his cousin Nora, too.
• Charlie got in the Christmas spirit and participated in/understood the Santa thing this year. It was precious.
• Charlie sang Jingle Bells a lot and wished us all a Merry Christmas individually for a couple days.
• I visited Bill Strohm and Chas Deremer, two mentors from high school. It has been gratifying to keep that relationship alive and relate to them now as an adult and parent rather than a teenage student. Chas brought me some fresh pheasant feathers from a bird he shot the day before!
• Dad and I prepped some fly tying materials from a coyote tail and a raccoon tail. I have them drying now and will tie with them probably next month.
• The bird house ornament Dad made this year was next-level. It is a mini version of my workshop!
• Charlie likes Christmas Jello and fresh Hungarian sausage.
• We visited my cousins the Harkers on their farm. Charlie loved the tractors.
• We got to meet Sean Nelson’s little boy, Augie, and visit with his family. What a little cutie.
• The daily get-togethers and being off of his routine was a bit much for Charlie. It is hard trying to pack it all into a week. We noticed a big improvement when we back into his routine again.

Some photos:

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New Year’s, abridged:

• We went grocery shopping, went to a cheese shop, and did fondue at home on NYE.
• We tried to play outside as much as possible and get our grumps and wiggles out.
• I tied a few flies before midnight.
• I made a sausage, beans, and greens dish on New Year’s Day, downsized from the original plan of cassoulet because we were all a little done and ready to go back to school and work the next day.

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Post New Year’s, abridged:

• We went back to work and school.
• We buckled down and finished an application for a school we are interested in sending Charlie to. It is wild to us that it is so soon!
• I turned a few things:
  • A kitchen mallet as a gift for a friend
  • A cup for holding long feathers for fly tying that don’t fit in the bag I keep the smaller feathers and partial skins in.
• We went to a friend’s birthday part.
• Charlie’s swim lessons restarted. What a difference a year makes! He had fun, listened really well, and willingly did all of the exercises. I was in the pool with him and we both had a blast. Looking forward to next week.
• Charlie and I went on an adventure to Bear Mountain to get our wiggles out on Saturday afternoon. The carousel was working, and our little turkey insisted on riding a turkey. After that Charlie wanted to try out the ice rink, and I couldn’t redirect him, so we rented some skates and tried it out. Mind you, I can’t really skate and I’ve been on skates a total of three times in my life. Still, we gave it a shot. I stayed on my feet the entire time and held on to Charlie, propelling us both around the outside edge for one full lap around the rink. We left without injuries and still in good spirits.
  • Charlie said, “We need Momma cuz we don’t know howwa ice skate. Momma will teach us.”
• Charlie has been very polite lately! Lots of please, thank you, no thank you, etc.
• Charlie is sick today with some stomach illness and a fever.
• I tied some flies!
  • Pheasant tail sakasa kebari
  • Copper John kebari
  • Olive bubble kebari
  • Purple jun kebari
  • Barry Ord Clarke’s Mutantz (made with hot glue and a lighter)

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Things on my mind right now:

1. Planning for my sabbatical (April, May, and June)
2. Planning a small 35th birthday party
3. What flies to tie next (probably more pheasant tail patterns)
4. What to make next in the workshop (probably more practice bowls)
5. What to read this year. I read mostly fiction last year and need some more non-fiction in my life. Send me your recommendations!
6. Reading more blogs this year. Send me your blogroll’s OPML.

I worked in Manhattan on Monday to host a WordPress community event at our offices after work. I got in some last-minute shopping and had lunch at Hamburger America, and caught up with some coworkers I hadn’t seen in a while. The event itself was kind of a bust, but while waiting on the subway platform on my way home, I ran into one of our friends from Lake Peekskill, also on his way home, and we got to chat for the next two hours on the train north. Serendipitous fortune!

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We got some snow this week on Monday, Friday, and Saturday. Chilling temperatures this weekend, too. 11F out right now, and it will be 7F when we wake up in the morning.

Charlie and I had some fun out in the snow.

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I turned a scoop on the lathe over two late evenings this week. It was a good learning experience, but the final product doesn’t quite match what I had in mind. It needs a longer handle, thinner walls on the scoop, and spent way too much time hollowing out a larger section than needed. The next one will be better.

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I don’t mean to brag, but I have a cleaning crew come vacuum up the woodchips after I use my lathe.

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I tied more flies this week. Some eggs, bead head nymphs, and leeches.

I really like the look of the grey ones.

Speaking of tying flies, it has been about three months since I first got a vise and gave it a go, so let’s check in:

I’ve tied 226 flies so far. About a quarter are crap. Bad proportions, bad execution. Another quarter are pretty good. The remaining half are somewhere in the middle: They’ll catch fish and stay together, but have room for improvement.

I’ve given some of the better ones away to friends and either tossed the bad ones or cut the thread off with a razor to reuse the hooks.

I’ve tied:

• Tenkara flies
• Wet flies
• Dry flies
• Streamers
• Nymphs

I’m slowly chipping away at the basic skills. The nymphs above all have dubbed bodies, and that was a first for me. Previously I really only dubbed thoraxes/collars.

I’m getting more confident in figuring out the order of what gets tied on when I see a pattern recipe. I’m also getting better at getting the proportions right.

I still have a lot to learn, though I imagine that this is something I’ll do for years to come, though not at the same rate. Once I feel good about having reached a decent competency level, I’ll probably just tie enough to keep my fly boxes full and gift some to friends. I have no interest in trying to sell them or tie things just because. I have too many other things I want to do.

What’s next?

The local Trout Unlimited chapter has a tying class in April I’ll probably attend to learn some new skills and meet some local tyers.

I’m done until the new year, but once the holidays are over I plan to tie more tenkara flies, pheasant tail patterns, fox squirrel patterns, then some dry flies.

I’m sketching more ideas for patterns. This is for a standard winter box:

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It is challenging trying to learn two new skills at the same time (fly tying and bowl turning) that take blocks of focused time to make progress on. I try to spend at least one night (post kid bedtime) each week on each one, but I make better progress when I can do two nights in a row on the same thing, which I usually don’t have time for.

January and February are a bit slower than the last two months have been, so we’ll see what I can accomplish then.

The other thing that is tough is that I have other woodworking ideas I want to work on besides bowl turning, which limits the learning time even further.

I think I just need to be more patient with myself. I am making a lot more progress this year than I did last year. I also need to remember that the folks I am drawing inspiration from in the fly tying and bowl turning communities are folks that have been doing it for decades and spend most of their time on it.

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This week was a whirlwind of finishing things up at work before the holiday, various holiday get togethers, a friend’s birthday party, last minute shopping, and travel prep.

Winding down for the holiday and family time. I probably won’t write a weekly update next week, though I have some year-end reflection posts in the drafts. 👋

The big thing this week was that we unexpectedly replaced our washer and dryer. The washer started leaking on Monday, so I took the front off and laid on the floor watching it run a load. The leak was coming from where the shaft goes into the wash basin, and my Dad, who repaired appliances for 30 years and knows pretty much everything there is to know about appliances, thought it wasn’t worth trying to replace the basin on an old washer that came with the house. I already replaced parts on the dryer last year, so we decided it was time for a new set.

That saga took:

• Monday evening (diagnosing, ordering a new set)
• Tuesday evening (disconnecting the old ones and getting them out of the basement)
• Wednesday afternoon and evening (delivery and self installation)
• Sunday morning (Craigslist dryer pickup)

That ate into a lot of the time I had hoped to spend in the workshop making some gifts. Such is home ownership. Still better than renting, IMO. I’m glad we were able to replace them so quickly.

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I feel like I’m making progress on fly tying. I learned a couple new techniques this week for dubbing and I’m feeling more confident about basic techniques. I still have a lot more to learn, and I think the next step is learning how to tie in wings for dry and wet flies. I’ll probably start with a couple of traditional wet flies with mallard wings and some mosquitos for small dry flies.

I tied some green caddis larvae, ping bead Frenchies, and leeches this week. I also sketched out some ideas with colored pencils.

I wanted to try tying some leech patterns tonight, but I didn’t have any simi seal, so I made my own blend from different colors of hare’s mask dubbing and ice dub. It kind of worked and had nice color, but the hare’s mask is too short and fine. The simi seal is made from longer, coarser fibers. I also don’t want to use all of my dubbing just for leeches (they take a lot!) so I ordered some simi seal.

Good experiment, though! I learned about blending dubbing, how to use a dubbing loop, and three different techniques for tying leeches.

I’m thinking about expanding my patterns so I can make some seasonal boxes and expand my repertoire. I feel pretty good about my winter list, and will start tying them after the new year. Short list, mostly basics that are suggestive rather than trying to imitate a specific insect.

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I got out into the workshop Sunday evening, which is why this post is going out on Monday. I’m writing it on the train into Manhattan.

I finished another bowl and made a darning ball for a friend who posted a photo of an old beat up one they picked up at a garage sale. I had a piece of cherry from a tree that fell in their yard, so I used that.

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Some holiday festivities this week:

Amanda and I buckled down and finished writing our Christmas cards. Charlie helped us mail them.

Saturday we went to the Wall Holiday Party, which always includes live music and singing. Amanda played her flute!

Sunday we went to the train display at the Lasdon Arboretum. Charlie loved it.

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Strange mushrooms popped up in our yard!

Maybe a hygroscopic earthstar?

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I love soup season. This is some pasta e fagioli with white beans.

We woke up to a couple inches of snow this morning!

My train ride is coming to an end. Time to go 👋

Christmas decorating is a process. We dehydrate grapefruits each year, put cloves in oranges, and string cranberries. We got that done this week.

I really like that all of the wooden ornaments for the tree are ones I’ve turned over the last four years.

We also got a train for around the tree and Charlie loves playing with it. It captures his attention!

Speaking of Charlie, he has his first imaginary friend. His name is Fire and he is a dragon who lives on top of the castle on the playground at his school, scaring away all the knights. Fire flies alongside the car with us wherever we go. He eats mulch.

Always up for exploring new playgrounds.

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I did a lot of woodworking in the evenings this week.

I turned a second bowl and four Christmas ornaments, and made a fly tying tool caddy. I have a third bowl half done, but had to stop halfway through hollowing.

Finished the bowls with a thin coat of a blend of raw linseed oil and beeswax, buffed with 0000 steel wool after 24 hours. Linseed dries. The ornaments are finished with a jojoba oil and beeswax blend, which doesn’t dry.

I opened up the Shopsmith headstock to oil it this week. Still running nicely.

I want to turn a couple more bowls with this practice pine before trying some maple, cherry, or oak. Then I want to break down a couple big pine rounds I have in the backyard into blanks from a tree that was taken down a couple years ago.

I also need to make a dust collector for the lathe. I think I’ll go with something like this.

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I also tied some flies. I am trying to improve my dubbing skills, so focusing on dubbing bodies right now. I’ve found Barry Ord Clarke’s videos very helpful. Next will probably be some Walt’s Worms.

I picked up my sketch book for the first time in months (remember that resolution? yeah…) and sketched a bunch of ideas for flies and ornaments.

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We finished off the Thanksgiving leftovers with a turkey pot pie this week, and we used some of the stock we made for chicken and wild rice soup.

Amanda and I got ourselves an air fryer on Black Friday. What are your favorite air fryer recipes?

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This time last year: https://cagrimmett.com/2023/12/11/week-of-december-4-2023/

I had just gotten back into the workshop after a 2 and a half year hiatus after some nudging by my friend Jon. That sparked the rebuild I started a month later. Big difference now a year later!

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Two updates I want to make to my blog:

1. Adopt Jeremy Felt’s “This week also appears in [year]” feature.
2. Change category and tag archive pages to titles and dates only, no content.

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Two updates I want to make to my digital garden:

1. Add bookmarks to more top-level pages, maybe in the sidebar? If a bookmark tag matches the slug of the page, it should show up.
2. Cleaner archive pages

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That’s all I’ve got. Good night.

Thanksgiving itself is probably my third favorite holiday, but I always get a lot done on personal projects and a lot of quality family and friend time during the week, which bump it up in my overall admiration.

Thanksgiving Day we hosted another couple who are NY transplants and also have a 3yo who gets along very well with Charlie. We cooked a turkey from Hemlock Hill Farm (local), our guests made some of the sides (their sausage stuffing was particularly good), and we all had a great time. The kids played together most of the afternoon and evening, so the adults got to hang out and chat.

Amanda decorated the table with a flower arrangement of her own design in a vase by our friend Natalie at Resist Ceramics and a table runner by our friend Erin at Red Cottage Fiber Studio. Amanda also made the apple pie.

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For 11 years Amanda has been slowly chipping away at my Grinchy heart and inching back the Christmas decorating from December 15. This year we started decorating on December 1.

We drove up to Ashfield, MA, to get a coppiced balsam fir from my friend Emmet van Driesche at Pieropan Christmas Tree Farm. It might be the only coppiced Christmas tree farm in the US! Amanda and I drove up there in 2020, pre-Charlie, and this is the first year that nap schedules allowed us to visit as a family of three. Charlie loved it.

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I tied some soft hackle flies this week. Sizes 16 and 18.

I like the look of those orange body/brown hackle ones with the cahill thorax. I don’t know what they are called, but I saw some in a friend’s fly box and had to tie some.

I really like the look of those slightly angled hooks, too. They are Gamakatsu R18-B. I’m going to get some in more sizes. R17-B and R19-B have similar profiles with different wire weighs. R18 is a heavy hook, R19 is a standard hook, and R17 is a fine hook.

I also tied some Thanksgiving-appropriate flies.

Happy Thanksgiving

All the setup and tear down time required to tie flies at the dining room table was getting to me, so I set up a small fly tying station in the corner of my office with a desk we were going to get rid of.

Nice to have the thread, yarn, and wire out so I can draw inspiration from it and not have to dig.

The desk is small, but definitely workable. It is in front of a door we never use (really, opened maybe 4 times since we moved in 5 years ago), so I don’t mind blocking it.

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Charlie and I fixed the broken excavator toys at the playground near our house today. They are Charlie’s favorite things to play with there and they’ve been broken for a month, so we got some bolts and fixed them.

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I wrote last week about getting serious about sharpening my lathe tools. I made that happen this week. I got a slow speed grinder, CBN wheels with 80 and 160 grit, and a pro-grind jig. I reground the profiles on all of my lathe tools this week so I can sharpen them in a repeatable way with the jig, and it made a world of difference when I used them.

This helped me realize a goal I’ve had for the past 5 years: Turn a wooden bowl on the lathe. I’ve been chipping away at it for the past two weeks and finished my first one tonight. I turned it out of pine from a 2×6, and I have 4 more of these dimensional blanks to turn as practice before I turn a nicer piece of wood.

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I’m sure there is more, but that is all I can remember 👋

The cold weather is here, and I am happy to have it. It snowed on Friday, but melted overnight.

Given the weather, I’m in full hearty meal mode.

• I made my first lentil soup of the season, my favorite.
• Beef roast with tomatoes and garlic, served over orzo.
• Shepherd’s pie with the leftover beef roast.

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Charlie was home sick on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. That made for a challenging work week. He was vomiting, but had full energy and was bouncing off the walls, which is a recipe for chaos.

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On the project front: I’ve been trying to work on something for an hour or two each night after Charlie goes to bed.

One night this week it was finishing a lathe project I’ll post about soon.

Another night I tied a bunch of Ishigaki kebari in different colors and sizes 14 and 16 hooks.

Another night I cut a bunch of bowl blanks out of glued together pieces of 2x6s. I’ve only done spindle turning and I want to learn how to turn bowls, so I’m taking the turnawoodbowl.com course and need a bunch of blanks to practice on.

I completely rebuilt the inside of my workshop at the beginning of this year and I thought the next phase was going to be making upgrades to my old Shopsmith, but I’ve decided to get serious about sharpening instead.

The goal of the workshop upgrades was to be able to walk out to the workshop and immediately get to work on something instead of wasting 20 minutes moving things around, finding the right tools, and getting by set up. Big progress on that goal so far!

Upgrading the Shopsmith to make it safer and more capable would be very useful, but that isn’t really my bottleneck right now. It is still very functional and I did upgrade the bandsaw table already, which has been helpful.

Right now the main bottleneck is keeping my tools sharp, particularly my lathe tools. I have a couple jigs to sharpen on the Shopsmith itself with the disc sander, but changing tools to sharpen is a pain and eats into the already limited workshop time I have.

I think it is time for a semi-permanent sharpening station with some higher quality equipment so I can sharpen what I am using in a minute instead of twenty, and without frustration. This investment will save me time in sharpening and save work time, too. Sharper lathe tools cut cleaner and faster.

My current plans will allow my to sharpen other tools quickly, too. Bench chisels, hand gouges, hand planes, and maybe even my planer knives. I’m hoping to get everything set up this week.

I’m also becoming increasingly convinced that lathe work is mostly easy when tools are sharp, but they dull faster than you think and the sharpness to difficulty cliff is steep.

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I don’t know why I didn’t think of this 5 years ago. This planer was essentially dead space when not in use, but now I can put a router table, miter saw, or bench grinder on here.

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I got Charlie outside a decent amount this weekend. We walked some of the carriage trails at Rockefeller State Park (and he climbed some big rocks) in part because I wanted to take a look at the Pocantico River, which is a potential fishing spot. It is stocked, and while some local forums say that it gets fished out every year, I simply don’t believe that. The river doesn’t show signs of being heavily fished beyond a few spots without tree cover. Most of it is narrow pocket water and it is still flowing despite the drought. I bet there are holdovers in spots that aren’t on the path and don’t suit themselves to using a standard fly line, and I bet I can fish them with my tenkara rod.

We also spent a couple hours at the playground and park on Sunday, and Charlie had a great time.

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I went to the premier of a documentary about the 100 year anniversary of the Bear Mountain Bridge today, which included some interesting notes about how they maintain it.

Afterward, there was a panel discussion and someone asked why the Bear Mountain Bridge is still in good shape after 100 years while the Tappan Zee Bridge, the bridge just south of the Bear Mountain Bridge, had to be replaced after 62 years because it was in bad condition.

The panelists leaned into their mics at the same time and said, “Leadership” and pointed at one old guy off to the side, Harry Stanton. He led the NY Bridge Authority starting in the 1980s and decided to double down on maintenance of the historic bridges and do it all in-house. They still follow the philosophy he set today. By comparison, the Tappan Zee is run by the NY Thruway Authority.

I love how the subtitle of the film is “The First 100 Years.” They intend to keep maintaining and using the bridge as long as possible.

I’ve been working on other people’s blogs at work all day, time to post on mine.

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Downtown Peekskill with Amanda and Charlie on Monday evening. We went to dinner at the Irish place, and we also checked on the Little Free Library and exchanged some books.

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We had another tough weekend with Charlie, so I’m trying to remind myself of the high points this week:

• Lots of time playing trains, Hi Ho Cherry-O, and Mancala
  • Charlie won every round for three nights in a row. Incredible beginner’s luck.
• Grocery shopping together and Charlie requesting a Pomelo, so we got it and tasted it together at home.
• Planting garlic
• Cutting up a 2×6
• Pumping gas
• Learning how to use a chalk line
• Reading books together
• Going for a 3 mile bike rode together (he sat in the seat attached to my bike for the first time this year).

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Charlie, while in the bathtub:
“Daddy, are you finkin what I’m finkin?”
“What are you thinking, bud?”
“We take the garbage and flush it down the toilet!!!”

I’m suddenly pretty glad I preemptively bought that toilet auger two weeks ago.

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The rhetoric about non-natural fibers in clothing being “endocrine disrupting” smells like nonsense to me and I can’t find actual proof of it being a problem. It is okay to just say you prefer the feel of cotton or flax. You don’t need to make nonsense claims to position it as morally superior.

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I only see hypocrisy, false promises, and contradictions so far from Trump’s cabinet picks and statements. It is amazing how short of a memory the American electorate has. If you are optimistic about Trump’s reelection, I guarantee you will be disappointed. If you are upset about Trump’s reelection, you will continue being disappointed. More of the same.

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Sometimes I question whether or not the AI doomers truly believe that AI will kill every human within our lifetimes. If they did, I’d expect more radical (read: forceful) action than talking about it on podcasts.

If you truly believe we are all going to be wiped out anyway, what is the downside? Certainly the EA folks have done a Bentham-esque calculation on this.

It is hard to take people seriously if they have a fundamentally asymmetry between their beliefs and actions.

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I am very organized, but I have such disdain for tax and insurance paperwork that I just throw it all in a physical box and forget it. Amanda thinks this is crazy, but it works. When I need one of those papers, I open the box and rummage through it. I always find what I need.

We refer to it as “The Box”, and it is roughly stratified by year. There is at least five years worth of paperwork in the current Box. I hate The Box, but it is an unfortunate necessary part of life.

This came to mind because I rummaged through The Box to find FSA-related paperwork. I found it in about 30 seconds. No need for folders, binders, labels, etc. The Box works.

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Dudes talk a lot about how much hair loss sucks (and it does!) but no one prepared me for how horrifying it was when the lady cutting my hair asked me if she could trim my eyebrows.

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I forgot to post this a couple weeks ago, but I made an angled cover for Charlie’s sandbox to keep the rain from pooling up in the tarp that was on there.

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In the first meeting of a new book club last night we discussed Le Carré’s A Perfect Spy. Next month is Updike’s Pigeon Feathers. We are essentially using this book club for accountability to read books we’ve wanted to read but haven’t made the time for. By knowing we will talk about it together we’ll actually read them. We are a small group and meet virtually, let me know if you are interested!

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I tied some flies this week.

• Soft hackle pheasant tails, size 14
• Killer Kebari, size 14
• Zebra midge, size 16
• Yarn worms, size 14

The worms are an experiment to see if the wool yarn will work if I seal the ends with resin. I don’t really like chenille.

I know midges are usually tied smaller, but size 16 are the smallest hooks I have right now. I need to get some 18-24. Tried some different beads on those.

I like the look of the partridge feathers more, but find the hen feathers much easier to work with.

What’s next:

• Back to tying tenkara flies, both sakasa and jun kebari style.
• I want to tie some streamers with yellow marabou. I have a pack of white marabou, which is more than I’ll use in a couple years, so I’m going to try dying some of it. I got a book on natural dyes, and I think I might use some plants from the yard to dye it.

Here are the flies I took out fishing on Friday and Saturday, all tied by me.

I fished the Amawalk outlet on Friday, and explored more of the section below the Wood St Bridge. I hiked a long ways to explore, but I didn’t catch anything. Bummer. I found another scrape, though.

Saturday morning I went to Boyds Corner outlet, the first stream in the West Branch section of the Croton River. Much better day! I didn’t lose any flies despite lots of low tree limbs, the light soft hackle fly landed where I wanted it to most of the time, and I read the water better and found a lot more feeding fish than I did before. I was able to use a single fly the whole time (a size 14 soft hackle pheasant tail that I tied myself).

The stream I fished was super low because of drought, so it was mostly pocket water. The Dragontail Mizuchi triple zoom rod I have is perfect for this situation. I was able to pick apart the pockets quickly and change the rod length based on the surroundings.

I’m feeling pretty good about getting noticeably better, especially on the casting, but I need some help: I had a lot of takes and some of the fish even jumped out of the water taking my line with them, but I wasn’t able to land any of the takes. They jumped off the hook before I got them in. So, I have something to research more and improve upon. I think it might be either how I’m trying to set the hook, or not keeping tension with the rod after hook set.

Don’t get me wrong, it is wonderful to see them jump and to get to watch as a fish takes a fly I tied. I still had a great day, but I’d really like to get them in the net.

I’ll be back to Boyds Corner for sure.

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I finally bottled that hot sauce I made.

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A nice Thursday morning walk in the woods.

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Until next week, I hope for more time to make things and blog about it. I usually do that after Charlie goes to bed, but tonight I had to go back online at 8pm to fix a problem. I’ll try to make up the time in the workshop one afternoon.

Short post this week. I need to get some sleep. It has been a long week and I am tired. This work week was stressful and parenting was difficult. Optimistic that next week will be better.

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I made my own rosin and fly tying wax this week.

Making Rosin and Fly Tying Wax

I tied a few flies this week, too. Four different kinds of nymphs.

I picked up my first bobbin on September 12. In under two months, I’ve tied 111 flies, made a bunch of my own tools, gathered some of my own materials, and learned a ton. Mostly in the evenings after my son goes to bed.

I plan to tie more nymphs this week. Probably some with soft hackle, and probably more of the Dave Whitlock Red Squirrel Nymph.

It occurred to me that “get a rise out of” is a phrase from fly fishing! Trying to get the trout to rise to the surface to take a fly.

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I don’t look at my blog’s traffic stats much. I checked tonight for the first time in a while and the top post for the past six months is about building a climbing wall for my son. That brings me so much joy. I hope that post has led to climbing walls getting built for kids.

Adding a Climbing Wall to an A-frame Swing Set

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My friend Jeremy Wall did a public reading of some of his recent writing at Stanza Books in Beacon on Thursday. I went out to support him and hung out with some of the other writers afterward. Half of them were young parents like Amanda and me, and we had a great conversation about making space for your art and hobbies as a parent.

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I spend Saturday at the WordPress NYC meetup, which was hosted at Automattic’s office. I was the staff rep for the day. The organizers are trying to reboot the meetup again. We hosted a helpdesk, and had 10 people show up with a wide variety of WordPress questions.

Being in Manhattan gave me the chance to pick up some things for Amanda’s birthday (a cake from Milk Bar and a gift from Charlie).

Birthdays look a little different with a toddler. Amanda and I coordinated ahead of time to get her out of the house for a few hours so Charlie and I could decorate and he could do the surprise. It was precious to see him show Amanda the decorations and give her a gift.

Our tradition used to be going to one of the NY steakhouses for a birthday, and we are keeping that somewhat alive by cooking a classic steakhouse dinner at home.

Sitters are hard to come by. We had a nursing student who was great, but she got a job as a full time nurse. The high school student who was also great is now at college out of state. Another high school student who we liked is at college a couple hours away.

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Some limited thoughts on the election:

• I was surprised by the results, which I guess means that I need to update my priors.
• My prediction: It won’t be as bad as the left thinks, but it will be worse than the right thinks. That was my prediction in 2016, and I think it held. I’m sticking with it.
• I hope this breaks the two party system.

If you are a longtime reader, my political beliefs haven’t changed much, I’m just less outspoken and radical about them. My focus is elsewhere after wasting too much of my 20s on that. I’m more pragmatic and less idealistic now, which I think is mostly a symptom of being older and having more life experience.

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I’m listening to the rain while writing this. It is the first rain in two months, and it is very welcome.

Charlie worked with me in the shop on Monday night and I got down the hand drill and bit brace for him to check out. I was surprised by how quickly he grokked them. It was cool to see. He drilled decent holes by himself much safer than with a battery drill. I’ll have to find some his size.

This weekend I showed him how to fix his stuck loader bucket by oiling the joints. He did it himself on his workbench.

We spent some time in the woods on Saturday. It was a beautiful day.

We also raked leaves.

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I got some time in the workshop this week, mostly in the evenings.

• I successfully turned the pine resin into rosin! Full length post with more details coming soon.
• I got back on the lathe and turned some prototypes of things I don’t want to post about yet because the next version will be a Christmas gift.
  • Next on the lathe I’d like to learn bowl turning.
• I started making a net for fly fishing from a nice branch I found in the woods. It is currently wrapped around a form to dry.
• I made a French cleat tool holder for some of my lathe accessories.
• I put a magnet on a piece of wood for taking better photos of flies.
• I made a small gadget for cutting zonker strips for tying zonker streamers. Essentially a few razor blades bolted together and separated by nuts to cut 1/8″ wide strips.

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Charlie and I cleaned out the gardens and put away a bunch of outdoor furniture today. Then we we and picked up some wood to make a better cover for his sandbox that won’t let water pool up in the center.

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We did a Trunk or Treat at Charlie’s daycare on Halloween (kudos to Amanda for the decorations!) and then trick or treated with friends in Lake Peekskill that evening.

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Not much to say about work other than I’ve gotta keep my nose to the grindstone.

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Hoping to tie some flies tonight. Probably just some killer bugs, maybe some zebra midges. Just something simple. I’m tired but need a mental break.

Charlie and me at Home Depot:

“Daddy, what’s this?”
“An eye bolt”
“Daddy look!”

Charlie made a bus out of clay.

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I worked at the Automattic office in Manhattan on Wednesday.

It was a beautiful day, so I had breakfast in Union Square before a phone call.

For lunch I went to Thai Diner. Short rib in pad thai is not something I would have expected but pretty good.

After work I went to Paradise Lost with some coworkers.

Then off to Neal Stephenson’s book reading and signing for the launch of Polostan at The Strand.

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We kicked off a slew of Halloween events this weekend. Charlie asked to be a Bucket Truck two months ago and has been consistent, so Amanda created an awesome ConEd bucket truck for Charlie (his arm is the bucket!) and helmets for us.

Sunday we met up with Meg, Jeremy, and Miles at the library for a haunted house that our friend Colin helped put together. The boys are eating popcorn.

More festivities later this week!

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I processed the end-of-season habaneros and jalapenos into hot sauce.

Bottles are on their way, so I’ll bottle this up later this week. Let me know if you want a bottle! The orange habanero has a great bite, but also lots of garlic, onion, and carrot. The green jalapeno has onion and garlic, too. Both have vinegar.

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Charlie and I walked down to the park and went to the playground, then walked to the track and found an abandoned soccer ball, and had a lot of fun kicking it around.

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I went fishing at the Amawalk outlet on Saturday. I caught two wild brown trout on my tenkara rod with a size 14 killer bug that I tied.

I didn’t get a photo of the ~6″ one because I fumbled with my net and didn’t keep tension on my line, so it hopped off the barbless hook at my feet. Here is the tiny 3.5″ one:

Still a beauty, very gratifying to catch on a fly I tied.

It was a nice day and I’m glad I got the chance to get on the water. The flow was very high despite our lack of rain. Lots of water getting let out of the reservoir. The water was almost a foot higher in some spots than last month.

While walking between spots, I spotted a scrape! The rut is starting.

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I can’t wait for the election to be over. The robo calls, spam texts, and flyers in the mail are so annoying.

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I made a couple things this week. Here are the posts in case you missed them:

Wading staff

Prototyping fly rod spoons

I also tied a few flies, but didn’t take good photos.

• Two size 14 Grave Digger kebari
• One black wool sakasa kebari
• Two bead head black futsu kebari

This was my first try with dubbing, and it confirmed to me that I definitely need to make some dubbing wax. Getting the dubbing to stick to the thread was kind of tough.

I like the bead head futsu, I think I’ll tie more.

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I’m off to read more of the new Neal Stephenson book before bed. Good night! 👋 📖

Charlie and I were on our own until Wednesday, when Amanda came back from London. We played outside, got pizza at Baci, went grocery shopping, did dishes, and read books. We also worked through the meltdowns together and took 3x as long to get out the door each morning, because even though I only post smiling photos here, my son is still a three year old.

Later that week we had to pick peppers, tomatoes, and tomatillos in the dark ahead of a frost. For now we set them out on the porch in the sun each day to ripen, and Charlie helps me sort out the ripened ones. We freeze them until I have time to make hot sauce.

Amanda peeled her luffa plants and plans to make sponges out of them.

Charlie carved one of the pumpkins we grew!

We found a leaf bug!

Friday Charlie was home from daycare with a stomach bug. He bounced back the next day, and we visited a school open house (It is wild that it is already time for that!), played in the backyard and workshop for a couple hours, then went to Miles’s birthday.

Then Sunday Amanda and I both woke up with the stomach bug. It hit us hard. It felt like a repeat of the time we got food poisoning from some place in NJ (the worst state in the union, by far), but this time we at least had two bathrooms on two floors instead of one tiny apartment. Charlie was fine, had full energy, and very much wanted attention. It was a challenging day.

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Charlie is picking up the very basics of phonics. He has surprised us this week by telling us what letter various words start with after we say them. We recognized a few from ABC books we’ve read, but then threw some curveballs out and he gets 75% of them. Time to break out the phonics book.

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Our street got repaved this week. Looking forward to getting Charlie out there on his bike and scooter. Much better for cruising.

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Last week was one of the toughest weeks at work in the past couple years. So many things changing so quickly with short turnarounds. Many late evenings. I have a feeling there are more of these weeks to come, so I need to plan ahead to stay flexible and take time off to recharge.

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I have a few small projects in the works.

First is a wading staff so I don’t fall when I slip on rocks in the river. Charlie helped me strip the bark off a piece of cherry with the draw knife. I’m making it a T-handle so it is comfortable to hold on to and so I can use the handle to release snags. I’m thinking of adding some depth marks so I know how deep the water is (inspired by my uncle Kevin) and some holes with magnets for drying flies, inspired by Tenkara Path’s beautiful spools.

Second is some fly tying wax. I already make my own wood finish wax, so why not fly tying wax? I found an old timer’s recipe, which included rosin. After some research, I learned you can make rosin out of pine resin, so I scraped some pine resin off of a pine tree on a walk.

My general plan is to dissolve it with acetone, strain it, boil the acetone off, then cook off the natural turpentine and water at a higher temp. Then I’ll mix it with wax and a little grapeseed oil. The rosin is the sticky component, the wax and oil make it pliable. Apparently you can just boil it down and burn off the bark, woodchips, and bugs, but that added carbon will turn it more into a pitch and make the color darker. I’m looking for a nice amber colored rosin, hence the acetone step.

Third is fly rod spoons. I read Tenkara Bum’s post about fly rod spoons, which aren’t really available anymore. If you are lucky you can find a brand from Japan like Rodio, but the shipping is killer and they are hard to find. It is easy to find larger spoons, but for throwing them with a fly rod you want a weight of 0.5g (roughly 1/60oz)or less. That’s tiny!

The closest thing I could think of is the spinners on rooster tails. They are the same basic shape and some are quite small. I spent a couple hours doing research and found a company that sells fishing lure components and ordered a sample of their smallest spinner blade sizes and split rings. I think I can drill an extra hole and add a barbless hook, then paint them to my liking. Send me a message if you want a couple to try out.

Dime for scale so you san see how small some of these are.